Monthly Archives: April 2014

The unattended church and the Christian heart

Abandoned-ChurchLast Sunday was Easter Sunday; just like many churches across our  nation, we had a number of families and people that visited my home church yesterday.  Sunday night I had trouble sleeping and went downstairs to lay on the couch and began to think of the people and families that came to worship with us yesterday.  One thing that stuck in my mind is that for many of them, their spiritual health is much like the picture of the church above – tattered, torn, paint peeling, windows broken.  While I may not know their exact relationship with God, I can tell you that there is seriously something missing in the life of a Christian that does not regularly attend church.

The picture of the old abandoned church is a good visual representation of a Christian’s life without regular church attendance.  It’s weak, not structurally sound.  Prayers and hymns of praise no longer fill the sanctuary, much like how the heart is no longer filled with joy.  Pews sit empty, the wood cracked, the cushions long rotted away as decay begins to set in.  The pulpit no longer bears witness of the glory, holiness, and power of God; the Holy Spirit no longer holds any sway over the Christian’s life.  In place of an ever-growing congregation, a building in near collapse now stands. Instead of a fountain of love and joy springing from the heart of the believer, a stagnant pond contaminated by the disease of sin has become the focus of the life of the believer that will not be faithful in church attendance.

Although I came to know Christ as my Lord and Savior in 1988, I did not always have the wish to sincerely follow after Him as I do now.  For a while, I was active in church, attending every service offered.  Over time, my church attendance began to decline, my faithfulness to reading the Bible began to dwindle, and within a year, I fell into the trap of only attending church on Sunday morning.  Within another six months, I only went to the Christmas Sunday service during that month of December.  The next time I attended the Sunday morning service was Easter Sunday.  Yes, I was still a Christian; however, I had fell into a subtle trap created by Satan that derails millions of Christians – as long as I am saved, that’s all that matters.  Yes, we cannot lose our salvation; however, we can allow Satan to rob us of our joy.  I had a heart that resembled that stagnant pond; the odor my heart let out was foul, full of decay and I did not have the ability to find peace, comfort, and joy that Christ had brought into my life at an earlier time.

When a Christian falls out of church there is more that they are missing than just the preaching and the singing.  They miss the Christian fellowship that is essential for the development of a stronger walk with Christ.  They miss the strength that praying with other Christians can bring to even the most troublesome burden.  Believe it or not, there are other benefits that God has placed within the local New Testament church that the Christians who are fairly active within their congregations. Take a moment and, if you regularly attend your church, you will know immediately who the older women are that might be able to watch your child at a moment’s notice, who the men are that can help replace a starter or an alternator in your car, who might be able to fix a leaky sink, replace a circuit breaker, repair your computer, or even make a professional-quality cake.  Within the last ten years, as I have grown more in my faith, I have helped church members with various computer issues, add telephone lines to their house, build computer networks, hook up new televisions and entertainment centers, video record weddings, and even repair/upgrade computer hardware.  No, this is not the main reason that anyone should go to church but it is simply one of the added blessings that God provides to His children who are obedient.

When God brings Christians together through the local New Testament church, he makes that body with the idea that we are there to use our talents and gifts not only in the glorification of God in that local body, but that we might serve one another with our talents and gifts. This helps to strengthen the bonds between Christians and follows the examples of the early churches started by the apostles. The members of those early churches were known for helping one another out as part of the demonstration of their faith.

I do not promise you that your Christian walk will be without problems if you become more active in your local church.  I will promise you that the fellowship will grow sweeter, your burdens and trials won’t seem so lonely, and you will develop friendships that will be founded in Christ that will last a lifetime. Christians that already have experienced this do understand the joys that our salvation does bring.  It lifts our emotions and our spiritual well-being.  It brings us closer to God and allows ourselves to become a part of His plan to reach others in our community.

The Monday before Easter

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It’s the Monday before Easter; Passover begins on Wednesday, so for both the Christian and the Jew, it is a holy week.  Where the Jew celebrates and remembers the great miracles and judgments that occurred to deliver them out of the hands of the Egyptians.  For Christians, Easter is also a celebration where we remember the great miracles surrounding the life of Jesus and the great judgment that He bore on himself to redeem all people.

This past Sunday, celebrated as Palm Sunday by many Christian denominations, marks the triumphant entry of Jesus into Jerusalem.  The crowds that would later shout out “crucify him” were the same crowds that were spreading palm fronds in front of Jesus on that Sunday morning. It is no marvel at all that the crowd that day turned so rapidly against Christ; our living generations would do the same thing today and it is demonstrated on nearly a daily basis.  Many of the same people who attended church yesterday morning are now, today, acting no different from the lost world around them.  I often wonder is this what Jesus meant when he warned, Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savour, wherewith shall it be salted? it is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under foot of men (Matthew 5:13). Although these Christians proclaim the love, blood, and forgiveness of Christ, their very actions inoculate others against that same gospel.  Christians are called to be different.

Standing in the shadow of the cross, I ask myself if I am the type of Christian I should be. I am not perfect and have my daily struggles with sin. There are times I do not understand why God would love someone like me, someone who is broken, has not made the wisest of choices, and for so long took the love and grace of God for granted.  The good thing is that we have a patient God who does love us and is concerned about us.  If we are willing to let Him, He will mold us and shape us in a way that not only will bring out joy in our lives, but refocuses our attentions from the word to Him.  He also strengthens us, and through our studying of His word, He teaches us.  God does not force our obedience but wants us to be willingly obedient to Him.

Using the Bible as a true mirror

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One of the important milestones in our faith is when we begin to see ourselves as the Lord Jesus Christ sees ourselves.  Back when I was living in Louisiana, an old Baptist preacher by the name of Clarence Welch told me and another young man who was working in his garden that if we ever wanted to get a good look at our faith we could only do so through the mirror of the Bible.  At the time, I was 36 years old and was going through a personal crisis.  I had just been medically discharged from the U.S. Army for injuries that I had sustained. Then, without the comfort and security of a steady income and active duty military benefits, the woman I was married to left me and returned to her hometown where she moved in with her old high school sweetheart.  I was mad – mad at myself, mad at her, mad at those around me, mad at God – genuinely mad.

I wanted to share that because yesterday, my best friend called me and told me that on Friday of last week, as he was heading home, he decided to empty his heart’s contents to God.  He had reached a point in his life where he was desiring a closer relationship with God and from what he described to me, tired of the trapped feeling that unresolved anger can have in our lives.  What he had done, as I had done for so long, was to internalize and bury the unresolved anger and tried to build on top of that foundation. Can we get saved with unresolved anger in our hearts?  The answer to that is simply yes.  Can we spiritually grow with that unresolved anger in our hearts?  The answer to that is also yes; however we will reach a certain point where spiritual growth cannot occur unless we resolve the anger.  There is a reason why – anger occurs when we believe we have been wronged or harmed and we feel that the other party has not atoned for the transgression.  At the heart of the issue is forgiveness and our willingness to allow God to heal our wounds.

Forgiveness is important for the believer for many reasons and if we are not careful, we can actually carry anger with us for so long that we become accustomed to its bondage.  We excuse our anger and have a tendency to see it as justifiable; unfortunately, God does not see it that way.  During Jesus’ earthly ministry, he taught all that would listen, For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses (Matthew 6:14-15). When we harbor our anger we place ourselves under the same judgment, but from God, that we are placing on the object of our anger.  We have effectively blocked God from being in a position to help us and to bless us.  We cannot continue our spiritual growth until we have let go of the anger that holds us back. In fact, the gospel written by the apostle Mark records Jesus teaching those that followed him, And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses (Mark 11:25). Notice that when you pray…forgive, if you have ought against any. There’s no conditions, there’s no justification, there’s no reservations recorded in this verse.  Jesus’ teaching is clear – forgive.

As recorded in the gospel of Matthew, there is a parable that Jesus uses to teach this very concept.  The parable is about a man who receives forgiveness for a debt that he owed another.  The parable ends with this passage: Then his lord, after that he had called him, said unto him, O thou wicked servant, I forgave thee all that debt, because thou desiredst me: Shouldest not thou also have had compassion on thy fellowservant, even as I had pity on thee?  And his lord was wroth, and delivered him to the tormentors, till he should pay all that was due unto him. So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses (Matthew 18:32-35). This is a difficult lesson to allow to sink in – the forgiveness of God is complete; the forgiveness we offer others must reflect the forgiveness that He freely offers us.  It is not optional, it is not a nice request, it is something we must do if we are going to enjoy the fullness of our Christian faith.

The Bible is our mirror and our measuring rod; when we begin to see our lives through the mirror of the Bible, we do not get the distortions that we do when we look at our lives through the lens of the world.  When we look through the lens of this world, it becomes easy to justify our anger and our judgment of others. It becomes easy to hold on to that anger. The world even tells us that we are justified to hold on to our anger and judgment of others.  God tells us that our anger at others must be dealt with; the perceived wrong must be forgiven completely.  Once we have forgiven them, we must leave our anger in the past and pray for the person that wronged us.  By doing so, not only do we free ourselves up from the anger and judgment within our hearts, we allow ourselves to be brought into God’s perfect peace and we really begin to spiritually grow and enjoy the richness of the forgiveness of God.