Category Archives: My Walk

Blog entries in this category are my own personal reflections, experiences, and growth.

The unattended church and the Christian heart

Abandoned-ChurchLast Sunday was Easter Sunday; just like many churches across our  nation, we had a number of families and people that visited my home church yesterday.  Sunday night I had trouble sleeping and went downstairs to lay on the couch and began to think of the people and families that came to worship with us yesterday.  One thing that stuck in my mind is that for many of them, their spiritual health is much like the picture of the church above – tattered, torn, paint peeling, windows broken.  While I may not know their exact relationship with God, I can tell you that there is seriously something missing in the life of a Christian that does not regularly attend church.

The picture of the old abandoned church is a good visual representation of a Christian’s life without regular church attendance.  It’s weak, not structurally sound.  Prayers and hymns of praise no longer fill the sanctuary, much like how the heart is no longer filled with joy.  Pews sit empty, the wood cracked, the cushions long rotted away as decay begins to set in.  The pulpit no longer bears witness of the glory, holiness, and power of God; the Holy Spirit no longer holds any sway over the Christian’s life.  In place of an ever-growing congregation, a building in near collapse now stands. Instead of a fountain of love and joy springing from the heart of the believer, a stagnant pond contaminated by the disease of sin has become the focus of the life of the believer that will not be faithful in church attendance.

Although I came to know Christ as my Lord and Savior in 1988, I did not always have the wish to sincerely follow after Him as I do now.  For a while, I was active in church, attending every service offered.  Over time, my church attendance began to decline, my faithfulness to reading the Bible began to dwindle, and within a year, I fell into the trap of only attending church on Sunday morning.  Within another six months, I only went to the Christmas Sunday service during that month of December.  The next time I attended the Sunday morning service was Easter Sunday.  Yes, I was still a Christian; however, I had fell into a subtle trap created by Satan that derails millions of Christians – as long as I am saved, that’s all that matters.  Yes, we cannot lose our salvation; however, we can allow Satan to rob us of our joy.  I had a heart that resembled that stagnant pond; the odor my heart let out was foul, full of decay and I did not have the ability to find peace, comfort, and joy that Christ had brought into my life at an earlier time.

When a Christian falls out of church there is more that they are missing than just the preaching and the singing.  They miss the Christian fellowship that is essential for the development of a stronger walk with Christ.  They miss the strength that praying with other Christians can bring to even the most troublesome burden.  Believe it or not, there are other benefits that God has placed within the local New Testament church that the Christians who are fairly active within their congregations. Take a moment and, if you regularly attend your church, you will know immediately who the older women are that might be able to watch your child at a moment’s notice, who the men are that can help replace a starter or an alternator in your car, who might be able to fix a leaky sink, replace a circuit breaker, repair your computer, or even make a professional-quality cake.  Within the last ten years, as I have grown more in my faith, I have helped church members with various computer issues, add telephone lines to their house, build computer networks, hook up new televisions and entertainment centers, video record weddings, and even repair/upgrade computer hardware.  No, this is not the main reason that anyone should go to church but it is simply one of the added blessings that God provides to His children who are obedient.

When God brings Christians together through the local New Testament church, he makes that body with the idea that we are there to use our talents and gifts not only in the glorification of God in that local body, but that we might serve one another with our talents and gifts. This helps to strengthen the bonds between Christians and follows the examples of the early churches started by the apostles. The members of those early churches were known for helping one another out as part of the demonstration of their faith.

I do not promise you that your Christian walk will be without problems if you become more active in your local church.  I will promise you that the fellowship will grow sweeter, your burdens and trials won’t seem so lonely, and you will develop friendships that will be founded in Christ that will last a lifetime. Christians that already have experienced this do understand the joys that our salvation does bring.  It lifts our emotions and our spiritual well-being.  It brings us closer to God and allows ourselves to become a part of His plan to reach others in our community.

Just one hour a week… [the challenge]

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Earlier in January, I was working on our church’s newsletter and needed something to fill a page.  As I was considering what to do with the page, I felt led by the Holy Spirit to share something that has been on my heart for a while. During my days as a volunteer for the Boy Scouts, one of the standby jokes was that “it only took one hour a week” to make a difference in the life of a boy.  Without a doubt there is a lot of truth within that statement.  There is a lot of difference that one hour a week can make if we use it wisely.  For a moment, think of the impact in the community that the church would have if everyone would just spent one hour a week doing something to further the ministry of the local church.

As I was preparing to post this, a thought came to mind – what if for a four-month period, a challenge was made to myself and any others who wanted to see the difference that just one hour a week would add to the local church’s impact on the community.  Please do not take this challenge lightly as it is not something you can pledge to do and then not follow through with it.  If you do decide to take part in this challenge, remember what God has said about making vows: When thou vowest a vow unto God, defer not to pay it; for he hath no pleasure in fools: pay that which thou hast vowed. Better is it that thou shouldest not vow, than that thou shouldest vow and not pay (Ecclesiastes 5:4-5).  If you decide to take part in this, remember your commitment is not to me or this discipleship blog; it is a commitment between you and God. Alternately, remember that if you do make the commitment to spend an hour a week for four months, you should make every effort to complete it.   It’s why David, the psalmist, wrote Vow, and pay unto the LORD your God: let all that be round about him bring presents unto him that ought to be feared (Psalms 76:11) and why Jesus taught the crowds during his earthly ministry: And Jesus said unto him, No man, having put his hand to the plough, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God (Luke 9:62). Once the commitment to spend one hour a week is made it is something that we must keep doing for the entire four-month challenge.

The reason I believe that this must be a four-month challenge is because of human psychology.  According to numerous studies, it takes 120 days before anything becomes a habit, regardless of if it is a good or bad one.  It is my sincerest hope that this challenge will not be something that ends once those participating hit the four-month mark, but is something that continues beyond.  I believe that as we strive to make that difference in that one hour a week, God will bless our efforts and we will see fruit as a means to encourage us to continue. Based on my experiences, I know that if we diligently spend one hour a week sincerely trying to expand the reach of the local church’s ministry it will have an impact on our communities.  We will see souls saved, we will see the broken-hearted healed, we will see fellowship restored with members, and we will see families coming together.  I believe that one hour a week will make a difference if we use it wisely.

For many of you who are already facing busy days, you are probably wondering how you can squeeze one more hour into your already busy week.  To be completely honest with you, it would not need be given at one time, nor would it need to be spent doing just one thing. As I was preparing the article for our church newsletter, I thought about how taking the hour and dividing it into six parts, one for each day of the week except Sunday, could be used by even the busiest person to be able to make a difference over the next four months. Think of the difference that one hour could make each week even if divided among six days:

  • Just ten minutes on Monday to call those who missed Sunday morning service. It would let them know that you cared enough to notice they were not there and are concerned for them.
  • Just ten minutes on Tuesday to call the older members from our church who are shut ins. This would let them know that they are not forgotten by their church family.
  • Just ten minutes on Wednesday spent sending out cards to those going through trials and hardships in our church. This could encourage them to keep going, praying, depending, and remaining faithful to God and not giving up.
  • Just ten minutes on Thursday to take cookies to a next door neighbor or co-worker and to invite them to church. We all have neighbors and co-workers that need to have someone reach out to them with the love of God.

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Learning from a winter storm

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In my hometown of Henderson, Kentucky, we’ve had another round of winter weather.  While the winter storm is long gone, the snow and ice still remain. While many people see the snow and ice as an inconvenience, for me, I welcome the lessons that God teaches me through something as simple as a winter storm.  Being a bit hard-headed in my early Christian walk, I had to learn the hard way that God does not use a loud and booming voice to communicate to us.  In fact, I feel in good company.  I Kings records the lesson that God had to teach the prophet Elijah: And he said, Go forth, and stand upon the mount before the LORD. And, behold, the LORD passed by, and a great and strong wind rent the mountains, and brake in pieces the rocks before the LORD; but the LORD was not in the wind: and after the wind an earthquake; but the LORD was not in the earthquake: And after the earthquake a fire; but the LORD was not in the fire: and after the fire a still small voice (I Kings 19:11-12)

Oftentimes, we miss the methods that God uses to teach us because we are not waiting to hear the still small voice.  We claim that if God would just speak to us, give us some physical sign and with that we would listen and be obedient to Him. Jesus taught on this very thing that big wondrous signs will not make a difference.  In the story of the rich man and Lazarus, Then he said, I pray thee therefore, father, that thou wouldest send him to my father’s house: For I have five brethren; that he may testify unto them, lest they also come into this place of torment. Abraham saith unto him, They have Moses and the prophets; let them hear them. And he said, Nay, father Abraham: but if one went unto them from the dead, they will repent. And he said unto him, If they hear not Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded, though one rose from the dead (Luke 16:27-31). Although Jesus is talking about the lost coming to God, there is still a similar theme to these two passages of scripture.  In both, God loudly proclaims that it is not through great and mighty miracles where He does His work of touching the hearts of people.  Even if He did allow Lazarus to go and witness to the rich man’s family, they would not believe that God had done such a miracle and would demand that God do another.  Look at the number of miracles the crowds saw Jesus doing; look at the numbers of followers that remained near him on Golgotha.

It is through our quiet time that God truly speaks to our hearts.  We cannot expect to hear the still small voice that God chooses to use if we are doing so amid the distractions of the television, traffic, and the other experiences of day-to-day chaos?  Solomon wrote, Therefore came I forth to meet thee, diligently to seek thy face, and I have found thee (Proverbs 7:15). In other words, it’s never going to be during the “normal routine” of the day where we actually can hear the voice of God.  It is only when, in the case of Ezekiel, where we diligently seek to hear his voice that we will find Him. The apostle Paul understood this very thing too, writing to the Jewish Christian converts of his lifetime, But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him (Hebrews 11:6). Again, this idea of only through our diligent efforts will we hear God speak and reward us.  In my own experiences, the times where I diligently sought after the Lord, I had to come to an end of my own understanding of the situation and had to truly seek out God’s counsel.

As the winter storm began to hit Sunday morning around 6:30, I began to think how the storm would cause people to slow down; perhaps that was what I and others within the tri-state area affected by the storm needed.  Often times we allow life to run ahead of us and we forget what it is like to simply slow down and wait upon God. David understood this as the Holy Spirit led him to write, Rest in the LORD, and wait patiently for him: fret not thyself because of him who prospereth in his way, because of the man who bringeth wicked devices to pass (Psalms 37:7). Again, this idea of waiting, of diligently seeking Him and waiting patiently for Him is something that does not come natural to us in this microwaved, smart-phoned, and multi-tasking generation.  We want instant results and when, as in the case of a winter storm, life requires us to slow down and to be patient, many of us have a hard time doing that.  Let the electricity and cable television go out, and our problems are even worse. The lesson from this winter storm:  slow down and enjoy the time with friends, family, and the Lord.