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God’s advice comes in very normal ways

fortune cookieGod’s advice always comes at a time when we need to hear it most. Often, when God does send his advice, we are often dismissive of it because surely the Lord would not choose some casual, normal way to relay His words of encouragement to us. Although we are familiar with the scripture, And he said, Go forth, and stand upon the mount before the LORD. And, behold, the LORD passed by, and a great and strong wind rent the mountains, and brake in pieces the rocks before the LORD; but the LORD was not in the wind: and after the wind an earthquake; but the LORD was not in the earthquake: And after the earthquake a fire; but the LORD was not in the fire: and after the fire a still small voice (1 Kings 19:11-12). Elijah had become discouraged and felt that he was the only one going through such a trial as his at the time. At a time when he desired to hear from the Lord, the Lord called him to stand in a cave in a valley – and it was there that God used a small, still voice to communicate with His prophet.

Just like Elijah, often when we need to hear from the Lord we don’t expect the small, still voice or the use of common things that God will use to commune with us. We want to hear the big thundering voice proclaiming we are right, how we have been wronged, or even how we have pleased Him. We overlook the small messages of encouragement and instruction that God gives us simply because we overlook the common things. About two weeks ago, I had a daddy-daughter date with my four-year old. As is our normal tradition, I let her choose the restaurant and we ended up at a local establishment, The China Buffet, which happens to be her favorite. After we finished eating, the waitress brought out the bill and two fortune cookies.

My daughter, the self-proclaimed fortune cookie passer-outer, gave me one with her enthusiastic smile and “Daddy, here you go!” I opened my fortune cookie and instead of the traditional message offering some obscure advice, this was in my cookie: “No matter what your past has been, you have a spotless future.” I am not by any means saying that God uses every fortune cookie to give His children encouragement, but this fortune cookie had a message that God wanted me to remember. I often struggle with what I had done in the past as any regular reader of this blog knows and on this particular day, had already been struggling with Satan. This fortune cookie was God’s subtle way of reminding me of His saving grace. God was reminding me of this simple truth: Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new (2 Corinthians 5:17). God chose to use a common item at hand to remind me of His enduring love for me. As my daughter continued to eat her cookie, I sat in amazement at how God was able to send me a word of encouragement through a fortune cookie.

It is easy for us to overlook the many ways that God sends us messages of teaching and encouragement. Have you ever been driving down the road and all of a sudden a hymn, a gospel song, or even a contemporary Christian song will pop into your mind? Maybe you’ve been at work and you read something that causes you to remember a particular sermon you heard a long time ago. I’ve even had times when I have been preparing lectures in my world civilization course and suddenly I will remember a passage of scripture that accurately describes exactly what happened from God’s perspective. Ever sit out and watch the power of a passing storm, or listen to the birds sing, or even watch a butterfly land on a flower? Each of these can and often are used by the Lord as a way to teach us and encourage us.

I wonder how many times in my past I’ve missed God’s advice simply because I didn’t realize what was happening. It’s extremely easy to become distracted by just having a busy schedule. We live in an era where we are constantly bombarded with things to do, and because of the prevalence of personal electronic devices, I believe our senses have become numb because of the over-stimulation that happens.  It become easy to miss the smaller details and the common things the Lord uses to comfort and teach us. While I am sure there is no one sure-fire way not to miss these moments, for myself, it has become important enough for me to slow down and set aside time each day to simply sit back and listen for the still, small voice.

And in case you’re wondering, I kept the fortune from that fortune cookie and taped it to my laptop as a reminder to look for those small things that are used by the Lord to comfort, teach, and advise me.

Making the tough decisions; does it matter…

4-30-11-Article-Image-1Life is full of tough decisions; some of the decisions can be difficult to make as Christians.  Yesterday, in my Sunday school class, we began a new series that focuses on the central idea that what we surround ourselves with does matter.  While preparing the lesson, I used Psalms 101 as the starting point and had planned to simply focus on one key verse: I will set no wicked thing before mine eyes: I hate the work of them that turn aside; it shall not cleave to me (Psalms 101:3). As I began to study that particular psalm in greater detail, I began to really think about the lesson that was unfolding before me.

David is one of the Bible’s most beloved Old Testament characters.  His life has been used as a teaching tool for both child and older Christian.  Many people focus on David as the shepherd boy while others focus on David as the King of Israel.  David was not a man without sin; he had an adulterous affair that resulted in a pregnancy.  To hide that pregnancy, he planned and executed the murder of her husband.  He often made hasty decisions that went contrary to the advice of what God had revealed to David through His prophets. Yet God still had this to say about David: For it came to pass, when Solomon was old, that his wives turned away his heart after other gods: and his heart was not perfect with the LORD his God, as was the heart of David his father (I Kings 11:4). In spite of everything wrong and everything sinful David had done God – Himself – testified that David’s heart was perfect. The book of Acts also bears witness of God’s love for David: And when he had removed him, he raised up unto them David to be their king; to whom also he gave testimony, and said, I have found David the son of Jesse, a man after mine own heart, which shall fulfil all my will (Acts 13:22).

As I studied Psalms 101 it became clear that I was looking at David’s personal desires.  This psalm was the description of the type of man who David wanted to be.  He had reached the point in his life that he was ready to make the tough decisions that we all find difficult to make.  His proclamation, I will set no wicked thing before mine eyes: I hate the work of them that turn aside; it shall not cleave to me (Psalms 101:3) is the most often quoted verse out of this particular passage of scripture and the starting point for so many studies about how as Christians, we should be careful what we allow ourselves to be visually subjected to.  While it is a good place to start, by no means should it be all we are concerned with doing.  In this particular passage of scripture, not only does David say that he wants to be mindful of what he sets before his eyes, he also is concerned with the people he has around him, those that live in his house, and even the type of man he is when he is in the walls of his own home.  I remember a line from a sermon I heard years ago; the way we act when we think we are alone is the person we really are.  David’s heart’s desire was to be a man who walked with God and God found pleasing not only when others were watching but also when others could not see.

One of the verses that really stood out as I was preparing the Sunday school lesson was, A froward heart shall depart from me: I will not know a wicked person (Psalms 101:4). A froward person is someone who willfully and with all deliberateness, chooses to do what they know is wrong.  The Merriam Webster Dictionary further defines froward as meaning, “habitually disposed to disobedience and opposition.” Each of us know people – family, friends, and coworkers – that if we are honest with ourselves, we know fit that definition. I was not raised in church, I grew up in a mostly secular home and was not taught anything different from what I was exposed to in both the public school system and the Department of Defense Dependents Schools while my father was stationed overseas. At the heart of that educational system was humanism – the idea that there is no God, no supernatural force out there and that humanity was able to decide what was morally right and wrong.

Many of you were exposed to the same thing and like me, have a hard time calling anyone wicked or evil except for those such as Charles Manson and other notorious criminals.  We do not have the same world view of David, or even the Lord Jesus Christ, for that matter.  We do not like the idea of putting people into one of two categories; everyone can be scripturally divided into two peoples: the righteous and the wicked.  There is no “in-between.”  Even Jesus taught this very concept during his conversation with Nicodemus,  He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil (John 3:18-19).  For many of us, it is hard to accept that even some of the members of our own families would be considered as wicked or evil by the standards of the Bible.  Many of us have even gone to the extent of categorizing sins to make ourselves feel better.  The apostle James even dealt with the early Christians doing the same thing: For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all (James 2:10).

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Learning from a winter storm

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In my hometown of Henderson, Kentucky, we’ve had another round of winter weather.  While the winter storm is long gone, the snow and ice still remain. While many people see the snow and ice as an inconvenience, for me, I welcome the lessons that God teaches me through something as simple as a winter storm.  Being a bit hard-headed in my early Christian walk, I had to learn the hard way that God does not use a loud and booming voice to communicate to us.  In fact, I feel in good company.  I Kings records the lesson that God had to teach the prophet Elijah: And he said, Go forth, and stand upon the mount before the LORD. And, behold, the LORD passed by, and a great and strong wind rent the mountains, and brake in pieces the rocks before the LORD; but the LORD was not in the wind: and after the wind an earthquake; but the LORD was not in the earthquake: And after the earthquake a fire; but the LORD was not in the fire: and after the fire a still small voice (I Kings 19:11-12)

Oftentimes, we miss the methods that God uses to teach us because we are not waiting to hear the still small voice.  We claim that if God would just speak to us, give us some physical sign and with that we would listen and be obedient to Him. Jesus taught on this very thing that big wondrous signs will not make a difference.  In the story of the rich man and Lazarus, Then he said, I pray thee therefore, father, that thou wouldest send him to my father’s house: For I have five brethren; that he may testify unto them, lest they also come into this place of torment. Abraham saith unto him, They have Moses and the prophets; let them hear them. And he said, Nay, father Abraham: but if one went unto them from the dead, they will repent. And he said unto him, If they hear not Moses and the prophets, neither will they be persuaded, though one rose from the dead (Luke 16:27-31). Although Jesus is talking about the lost coming to God, there is still a similar theme to these two passages of scripture.  In both, God loudly proclaims that it is not through great and mighty miracles where He does His work of touching the hearts of people.  Even if He did allow Lazarus to go and witness to the rich man’s family, they would not believe that God had done such a miracle and would demand that God do another.  Look at the number of miracles the crowds saw Jesus doing; look at the numbers of followers that remained near him on Golgotha.

It is through our quiet time that God truly speaks to our hearts.  We cannot expect to hear the still small voice that God chooses to use if we are doing so amid the distractions of the television, traffic, and the other experiences of day-to-day chaos?  Solomon wrote, Therefore came I forth to meet thee, diligently to seek thy face, and I have found thee (Proverbs 7:15). In other words, it’s never going to be during the “normal routine” of the day where we actually can hear the voice of God.  It is only when, in the case of Ezekiel, where we diligently seek to hear his voice that we will find Him. The apostle Paul understood this very thing too, writing to the Jewish Christian converts of his lifetime, But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him (Hebrews 11:6). Again, this idea of only through our diligent efforts will we hear God speak and reward us.  In my own experiences, the times where I diligently sought after the Lord, I had to come to an end of my own understanding of the situation and had to truly seek out God’s counsel.

As the winter storm began to hit Sunday morning around 6:30, I began to think how the storm would cause people to slow down; perhaps that was what I and others within the tri-state area affected by the storm needed.  Often times we allow life to run ahead of us and we forget what it is like to simply slow down and wait upon God. David understood this as the Holy Spirit led him to write, Rest in the LORD, and wait patiently for him: fret not thyself because of him who prospereth in his way, because of the man who bringeth wicked devices to pass (Psalms 37:7). Again, this idea of waiting, of diligently seeking Him and waiting patiently for Him is something that does not come natural to us in this microwaved, smart-phoned, and multi-tasking generation.  We want instant results and when, as in the case of a winter storm, life requires us to slow down and to be patient, many of us have a hard time doing that.  Let the electricity and cable television go out, and our problems are even worse. The lesson from this winter storm:  slow down and enjoy the time with friends, family, and the Lord.