Category Archives: Our relationship with God

Lessons from parenthood

DSCN0387 (Small)Ever since she learned to stand and walk on her own, my daughter has loved the thrill of climbing to the highest spot and jumping into my waiting arms.  In her own voice, Michelle and I will hear Edith count, “one…two…three…” as she prepares to make her jump.  Just like any child, she completely trusts that her parents will be there to prevent her from falling and getting hurt.  Although I do have three other children from my first marriage, it is this child that has taught me the most about the relationship that God desires to have with His children.

During the earthly ministry of the Lord Jesus Christ, he tried to explain to us that God desires that parent-child relationship with those who believe in Jesus.  We are told several times and in several different ways that after we have accepted the Lord Jesus Christ as our Saviour we also become a child of God.  In one of the instances of Christ’s teachings on the subject, he tells us: Behold the fowls of the air: for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than they? (Matthew 6:26). In a world that teaches our children that mankind is just an animal, nothing really special, and that we are the same as other animals, its reassuring to know that in God’s eyes, mankind IS different, unique, and worthy enough to be redeemed!  If God provides for the finches, the quail, and cardinals that do not have a soul in need of redemption, how much more does He love us, as Christians, Ye are bought with a price; be not ye the servants of men (I Corinthians 7:23).

Jesus also taught using parental love to demonstrate God’s love for his children.  In the gospel of Luke, it is recorded that the Lord Jesus Christ taught using a couple of questions that really demonstrate God’s heartfelt desire: If a son shall ask bread of any of you that is a father, will he give him a stone? or if he ask a fish, will he for a fish give him a serpent? (Luke 11:11).  It is a profound thought – I cannot imagine giving my child anything that I knew would cause harm to her.  Most parents that love their children cringe with even the slightest thought of anything that has the potential to injure their own child.  Jesus adds If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children: how much more shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to them that ask him? (Luke 11:13).  We are living in a sinful world; we see the results of a world that is drawn to the desires of the flesh.  At the time that Christ was teaching this, the majority of the crowd believed that he was simply a rabbi and not the Redeemer.  If they could love and care for their children and provide for the child’s needs, he was asking them to imagine how a holy God would care, provide, and love them if they would yet but ask!  The same God that had led their forefathers out of bondage in Egypt, had fed them for forty years with manna, had taken care of their shoes and clothing, and gave them a land of their own was again demonstrating His love for them by sending them a way to be reconciled to Him.

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Sin: resistance or willful participation

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Over the last few months our church has had the privilege of spiritually ministering to some of the young people from the Earle C. Clements Job Corps Center.  This past Sunday, we invited the two that attended our church services home with us for some Sunday lunch and fellowship at our house before the evening church service and the nearly thirty-minute ride back to the center.  One of the many conversations that I had with the young man involved nothing other than the pains of spiritual growth.

He had a lot of questions about faith and about how to handle life in general; the area that really bothered him the most was sin and how as Christians we should handle sin.  His questions focused on a theme that every Christian struggles with – how to handle the temptation of sin as a Christian.  Almost immediately I began to think of times in my own life when I, through the love and power of the Lord Jesus Christ, had avoided sin and the times that as a Christ-professing Christian, I had willfully stumbled and sinned.  What made the difference between the two was simple – when I took the time to resist the temptation to sin, prayed to God for deliverance, and then made an effort to stay focused on spiritual things, I was able to resist the desire to participate in sin.  On days where I tried to do it on my own or where I had already been “exposed” and remained in the vicinity of the activity taking place, I would willfully sin without any hesitation only to be met with extreme guilt and remorse when the “thrill” was over.

The apostle Paul also discussed the battle with the flesh that he had continually while on his missionary journeys across the Middle East, Asia Minor, and southern Europe.  He wrote For that which I do I allow not: for what I would, that do I not; but what I hate, that do I. If then I do that which I would not, I consent unto the law that it is good. Now then it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me. For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh,) dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; but how to perform that which is good I find not. For the good that I would I do not: but the evil which I would not, that I do. Now if I do that I would not, it is no more I that do it, but sin that dwelleth in me (Romans 7:15-20).  Although this may sound confusing the first few times its read, what Paul was saying is that the things that he doesn’t want to do – yielding to temptation and willfully committing sin – he does so because of the nature of the flesh.  The flesh desires to fulfil its own lusts and the desires of the flesh are indeed strong.

As Christians, the strong desires of the flesh do not give us an excuse to willfully choose to sin; in fact, it makes it even more imperative that we understand our position, through grace, with the Lord Jesus Christ.  As a Christian, when we do fail and yield to the flesh and sin, we are separated from the blessings and joys of our salvation until we have confessed our sins.  The apostle John explained that when we do commit sin and If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (I John 1:9). Not only does the Lord Jesus Christ forgive us, but John adds My little children, these things write I unto you, that ye sin not. And if any man sin, we have an advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous (I John 2:1).  Wow, what a thought that when we have sinned, all we have to do is to ask Christ for forgiveness; not only does he forgive us, but when we are accused by Satan for our sins, Christ personally defends us from the accusations!

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Taking the time to enjoy the scenery

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One of the things I have always enjoyed during the summer is the quick day trip without any particular destination in mind.  I’ve always enjoyed the path less traveled and have a tendency to prefer both U.S. Highways and state highways to Interstate travel.  It has always amazed me the truly remarkable things that we miss in our “hurry up and get there” attitudes towards travel.  We lose the chance to see the old churches, the old downtown areas and even the opportunity to make new friendships simply because we do not take the time to appreciate the places that our travels take us to.

Much is the same attitude many of us have in our relationships with God.  As I began to prepare for this post, I decided to look to the Psalms to begin this particular study.  David, even when in times of great trials and struggles, would pen these psalms, he often spoke from the heart. David wrote, Lead me in thy truth, and teach me: for thou art the God of my salvation; on thee do I wait all the day (Psalms 25:5).  It is an interesting verse; I’ve read it a hundred times but this time, it’s the last part of the verse – on thee do I wait all day – that caught my attention.  Within the grammatical structure of the verse is something that I hadn’t noticed before – as David said, we should be more than willing to wait on God because not only is he the God of our salvation but he leads and teaches us.

As a parent, I cannot tell you how many times I have asked my children to wait on me to help them with certain tasks; all through the Bible God asks us to wait on him, much like we do with our children. Often trying to convince a child that they need to wait for us is difficult; as Christians there are times we do not want to wait!  When I first accepted Christ as my personal Saviour, I could not wait to become a Sunday School teacher, when I felt the call to serve, I could not wait to serve as a pastor, not realizing that God had a different plan for my life.  Instead of waiting and being patient for God to show me his plan, I acted on my own.  When David wrote, Rest in the LORD, and wait patiently for him: fret not thyself because of him who prospereth in his way, because of the man who bringeth wicked devices to pass (Psalms 37:.7), he was reminding himself and us who read that psalms that we must remain focused on the Lord and not on what others are doing around us.  There are rewards for obedience to God’s will, even if we do not understand why God wants us to simply wait.

The apostle Paul had to remind Christians at the church in Rome to be patient in their desire to serve the Lord Jesus Christ.  He wrote, Having then gifts differing according to the grace that is given to us, whether prophecy, let us prophesy according to the proportion of faith; Or ministry, let us wait on our ministering: or he that teacheth, on teaching;  Or he that exhorteth, on exhortation: he that giveth, let him do it with simplicity; he that ruleth, with diligence; he that sheweth mercy, with cheerfulness. Let love be without dissimulation. Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good (Romans 12:6-9).  He knew that at the church within that pagan and imperial city that those who were now Christians were chomping at the bit to expand the church’s ministries. If we use the contemporary church as our model, they wanted to build a bus ministry, senior citizen’s ministry, Christian school to serve first through twelfth grade, send three of their own on the mission field to Africa, and build a sanctuary that could seat 10,000 – all within the first three years of the founding of the church!

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