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Why visual perception is never enough

DSCF0125During the late spring and throughout summer, my family and I enjoy going to various state and national parks within a day-trip radius of our home in Henderson, Kentucky.  One Saturday morning, we drove to Marengo Cave, located near Marengo, Indiana.  About thirty minutes through the tour, we entered a large chamber that had a shallow pond near the path.  I don’t remember all that the tour guide told us, but I do remember how the pond gave the appearance of the chamber having another level underneath the one we were on.  The guide did invite the group to come further into the chamber and see the shallow pond.  Conversations and laughter erupted among our group as we began to realize that the lower level was nothing more than a reflection in a pond less than an inch and a half deep. We all were guilty of having a mistaken impression of the cavern’s chamber based on its visual appearance.

Last night, during the Sunday evening worship service at our church, the pastor, Alan Ramsey, discussed that we must understand that our race, as individual Christians and as a church, is not the same race that God has ordained for others.  God has placed before each of us our own race; the trials, tribulations, and blessings we are given are uniquely crafted especially for us by God.  As our pastor continued on his point, he began to talk about how each church has been given certain talents, abilities, and blessings to accomplish the tasks that God has set before it.  Each church, just like each Christian, has its own race to run and should not be concerned with what other churches are doing but should focus on the tasks at hand.  Too many times, Christians get off track when we start determining our spiritual growth and outlook to what other Christians are doing.  While it is natural for us to want to model our lives and spiritual walk after those we perceive of having a strong relationship with God, we must keep in mind that the only true measure of our spiritual growth must be the only true measure – God’ word, the Bible.

I have made the mistake of measuring my spiritual walk to those that I thought were more spiritual than myself.  At one point, I even based my decisions on which church to attend based on the building’s appearance, its size, and the number of cars in the parking lot on Sundays and Wednesday night.  I was doing on a much larger scale of what the apostle Paul warned us about:  Do ye look on things after the outward appearance? If any man trust to himself that he is Christ’s, let him of himself think this again, that, as he is Christ’s, even so are we Christ’s (II Corinthians 10:7).  In this particular text, Paul was reminding the Christians at Corinth that appearance alone should not be the basis of Christian fellowship.  We can make the broader application that we should not base our decisions about where to attend and serve in a church based on its appearance.  Even the Lord Christ Jesus taught on this very subject, as recorded in the gospel of John: Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment (John 7:24).

When we judge on appearance we become blinded to the truth and become focused on the perception.  Just as I did when I was trying to find a church based on its outward appearance, as I began to visit those churches, I noticed that it was not the large buildings, the full parking lots, or even the well manicured church lawns where I felt the presence of God the most.  In many occasions, it was obvious that something was missing from the church.  Sure, they had great music, a piano player, and maybe even a choir, but the presence of the Lord wasn’t there.  Instead of being Christ centered, something else had become the focus of the church; maybe it was a mission field, a new project, or maybe a person that the church was now focused on.  There’s also a danger when we try and use the physical appearance of people we deem as Christians – they may have all the outward appearances of a love for Christ yet inside their hearts is empty, void of the true joy that Christ can give.

If we truly have the light of Christ dwelling in us we should not want to or be able to contain its transforming glow.  As Jesus taught and as recorded in three of the gospels: Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house (Matthew 5:15).  As a child of God, I should have a desire to follow Christ and his teachings that not only impacts my own being but should be evident to others.  The Lord Jesus Christ doesn’t come into our hearts just so we can continue to live like the lost world around us but so that others may see the joy and blessings and we can give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear (I Peter 3:15b).  There is a difference in what others perceive about us when we act like we are Christians and when we actually walk the Christian path that the Lord has set before us.  This is why Jesus taught his disciples that Ye shall know them by their fruits. Do men gather grapes of thorns, or figs of thistles? (Matthew 7:16).  It’s not enough to appear as a follower of the Lord Jesus Christ; a true Christian will bear fruit that not only identifies them as a Christian, but will also bear witness of Christ.

A lesson of reflecting God as taught by a setting Moon

Ohio River at Moonset

[Author’s note:  This year, I am making a conscious effort not to do anything on Sundays except for church and spending time with my family.  As a Christian, I feel that it is important to make the day that Christians choose to worship – Sunday – different than the rest of the week.  With this in mind, although this entry is posted on a Sunday, it was actually written beforehand.] 

This picture was taken back in late November as the mornings began to grow colder with the approach of winter.  As the moon was setting early in that cool and crisp morning I was captivated by the dark blues, purples, and hints of various shades of pink that accompanied the moon as it passed below the horizon.  I took this picture not knowing if it would even capture the slightest beauty of the moment.  A few days later, when I was uploading the pictures to my computer, I noticed that not only was the moment captured, but it turned out remarkably well – including the reflection of the moon on  the Ohio River.  As I look at that picture, I think of how we are called to reflect the love of Christ in our daily lives – not just to fellow believers but to all that we come into contact with during the day.

I know that in my own life I have struggled with this continually.  How can one reflect the love of Christ to those who have hurt us in the past?  How do we reflect that love to those who do not understand our dedication to Christ and openly ridicule our commitment to attend church and actively participate in its programs? How can we reflect the love of Christ to those who have not accepted what Jesus has done for them?  This is where I have learned that true Christianity is not just a religion but is also a life philosophy.  True Christianity should shape how we understand and relate not only to God, but to ourselves, to others, and to the world around us.  It is a real struggle for many, including myself, to willingly reflect the selfless love that Christ has shown to those that we have deemed unworthy to accept such unmerited grace.  However, just as the Ohio River didn’t have to think about reflecting the moon’s light on that cold November morning, we should not have to think about reflecting the love of Christ; it should come naturally and with very little effort.

I am reminded of the story of Moses and how during the exodus out of Egypt he went to the top of Mount Sinai and stayed for forty days and nights in the presence of the Lord.  As recorded in the book of Exodus: And it came to pass, when Moses came down from mount Sinai with the two tables of testimony in Moses’ hand, when he came down from the mount, that Moses wist not that the skin of his face shone while he talked with him. And when Aaron and all the children of Israel saw Moses, behold, the skin of his face shone; and they were afraid to come nigh him (Exodus 34:29-30). Moses’ shining was the direct result of him being in the presence of the Almighty God; as he communed with God he began to take on the characteristics of God – the same light we read about Moses radiating was nothing more than a reflection of the holiness of God. In the New Testament we also see Jesus radiating light in Mark 9:3 as he communed with Moses, Elijah, and his three disciples.  The only difference is that while Moses was simply reflecting the light, Jesus IS the light: Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life (John 8:12).  When we have the light of life that Christ gives, we too, should be able to reflect that great selfless love that he willingly gives us.

As we go about our daily routines, there are two basic types of people we come into contact with – those who have been saved by accepting the free gift of salvation as offered by God, and the others are lost.  The apostle Paul wrote to the church at Thessaloniki: And the Lord make you to increase and abound in love one toward another, and toward all men, even as we do toward you: To the end he may stablish your hearts unblameable in holiness before God, even our Father, at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ with all his saints (I Thessalonians 3:12-13).  Not only are we to reflect the love of the Lord Jesus Christ to fellow believers but also to those who are lost.  For those who are lost, the love of Christ we have within us should be drawing us to bear witness of that love: And of some have compassion, making a difference:  And others save with fear, pulling them out of the fire; hating even the garment spotted by the flesh (Jude 22-23).  Our heartfelt desire should be to see others accept the same salvation that was freely offered to us.  We should desire that others come to know and enjoy the unmerited grace and mercies of God through the completed work of Christ Jesus.

2013 – My desire to be a better servant for Christ

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Each year, many of us around the world willfully make resolutions on how we are planning to improve ourselves.  We talk about how much weight we want to lose by next Christmas, or maybe how we plan to do more for the Lord in our home, church, or community, or maybe even how we plan to develop a closer and more meaningful relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ.  While these resolutions start off with the noblest of intentions, there are some things that both psychology and sociology can tell us about ourselves – if we dare to listen.

There have been numerous studies conducted to find out what drives us to make resolutions and why many of us fail to achieve them.  According to these studies, the average person will make between five to seven resolutions; the first of the resolutions never makes it past the middle of February and the last one usually ends by mid-March.  A little less than 13% of the 1,500 polled in one study actually kept their resolutions long enough to become life-changing habits.

For me, 2012 was a year that not only was full of spiritual battles but of personal challenges and changes as well.  I made my resolutions without putting much thought into how I planned to accomplish them.  Not once did I ask God to lay on my heart the areas where He wanted to see me grow nor did I ever ask God to give me the strength needed to follow through on the areas I had chosen for my resolutions.  The end result was that two of my resolutions never made it past February while the third continued to limp along.  Sure, my intentions were noble; I planned to lose 25 pounds, to finish a book I have been working on, and to expand the printing ministry we operate out of our church.  Needless to say, on New Year’s eve as we were participating in the watch-night service, I began thinking about my failures and shortcomings in 2012.

The next morning, my family and I had breakfast and went on a day-trip to celebrate New Year’s Day with my daughter’s godparents as we have done each year for the past five years.  As we were on our trip back I decided that this year, instead of making resolutions just to see them broken within a few months, I would spend time in prayer and ask God to help me to become the man, the husband, and the father He wants me to be.  Instead of making this a New Year’s resolution, I decided to make this a “new day resolution” each morning as I do my daily devotions; I ask God to mold and shape me .  After all, it’s recorded in Lamentations: This I recall to my mind, therefore have I hope. It is of the LORD’S mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not. They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness (Lamentations 3:21-23).  Instead of focusing on trying to make broad changes over an entire year, I will simply take things the way that God intended – one day at a time.

There is one thing that I now grasp that’s taken me nearly 25 years as a Christian to learn – I cannot do anything outside of God and that I must seek and totally rely on His will for my life; I must learn to wait for the Lord instead of taking things into my own hands. The book of Lamentations comes into mind as I began thinking about how I am approaching this new year day by day:  The LORD is my portion, saith my soul; therefore will I hope in him. The LORD is good unto them that wait for him, to the soul that seeketh him. It is good that a man should both hope and quietly wait for the salvation of the LORD (Lamentations 3:24-26).