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Focusing on the things that matter

happy-easter-easter-cross-daybreakIn our world it seems that everyone is in a hurry. We have inventions,  and gadgets that were designed for the sole purpose of making the things in our life more convenient. Even job listings have the qualifier of “must be able to multi-task” as an ability that employers are looking for when hiring new people. There is even an entire genre of restaurants that specialize in selling meals that are ready within a few minutes and we do not even have to get out of our car to get them. Unfortunately, many people apply this same frantic pace when it comes to the two most important things we have: our relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ and the relationship we share with our family.

It is easy to lose focus on the things that are important to us as we rush through our busy schedules. It’s easy to skip Bible reading because of an extra tap on the snooze button one morning then turn around and realize that it is now three months later and the entire time, there was always a reason why you could not read the Bible that morning until you no longer remember it as a part of your normal routine. It’s easy to decide to read your Bible or devotional while eating or doing some other task; after all, we all know how to multi-task pretty well until a few weeks or months later, we really do not see where the Bible reading is adding anything to our lives. There are times we get so busy that we even forget the simplest of tasks that need to be done on any given day. Our families suffer as our extra-curricular, service groups, and jobs demand more and more of our time. In our quest to live rich and full lives, we are doing so many things that often the old expression “jack of all trades and master of none” becomes our life’s slogan.

A few months ago, as the Spring 2014 semester was drawing to a close, I had received an email the last two weeks of the semester stating that a new reporting procedure had been put into place and that when final grades were entered into the system, we would need to log into a different interface to report those students that had not attended class since mid-term. My “tradition” is that I enter the grades for each course after I have graded all the projects and papers for the course. Because of multi-tasking and the sheer number of projects I wanted to get done before the weekend, I forgot to enter the requested (and required) report on time. Thank the Lord that many others forgot it too because the deadline was extended another five days; however, it taught me an important lesson: I needed to decide what was really important within my life.

With me believing up to that point that so many things were important, I was not only not devoting the attention that each required, but very little was actually being accomplished. Some things, such as the video ministry I am involved with, the book project I’m working on, and a few others had fallen so far behind that it is going to take dedication and determination to catch up to where I need to be. In my quest to be productive I had become easily distracted by many other things, each requiring time, but in the big scheme of things, having little value. Jesus taught during his earthly ministry: A good man out of the good treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is evil: for of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh (Luke 6:45), For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also (Luke 12:34), and  Either make the tree good, and his fruit good; or else make the tree corrupt, and his fruit corrupt: for the tree is known by his fruit (Matthew 12:33). Everything we do without regard to whom or what we do it for can only be classified into one of these categories – it’s either good fruit or bad. Whatever we do that we invest the most work and effort in is what we consider our treasure.

When I began to look at the things in my life in those terms, it became pretty clear that many of the things I was doing were not going to bear eternal fruit in Heaven. It is not necessarily that those things were evil or that there was anything particularly wrong with them, it was just that they did nothing to further the gospel message of the Lord that I serve nor did they relate directly to supporting my commitments made to my employer, my family, or even my church. They were commitments made for nothing better than to elevate my own position and that appealed to my flesh. No one is immune from the desire to increase our own self-image and self-worth. I am reminded of the teachings of the Lord: And he said unto them, Take heed, and beware of covetousness: for a man’s life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesseth. And he spake a parable unto them, saying, The ground of a certain rich man brought forth plentifully: And he thought within himself, saying, What shall I do, because I have no room where to bestow my fruits? And he said, This will I do: I will pull down my barns, and build greater; and there will I bestow all my fruits and my goods. And I will say to my soul, Soul, thou hast much goods laid up for many years; take thine ease, eat, drink, and be merry. But God said unto him, Thou fool, this night thy soul shall be required of thee: then whose shall those things be, which thou hast provided? So is he that layeth up treasure for himself, and is not rich toward God (Luke 12:15-21).

What a powerful thought when it is applied to our daily lives – everything we do is either laying up treasure in Heaven or treasure on Earth. Although I do enjoy being a part of various civic groups, they have no eternal value; things that have eternal value are what matters to God. These are things that either point others to Him or that testify to our faithfulness to Him. How many projects or positions I hold through the American Legion or the VFW does not have eternal value; the time studying God’s word, telling others about the goodness of God, living a lifestyle that testifies that Jesus is my Lord and Savior, being faithful in my worship to Him, and raising my children to love the Lord – these are things that have eternal value. How much money I give to charity does not have eternal value; how I gave to the Lord in support of the local ministry and my attitude towards that giving has eternal value. Our society openly rewards and praises people who spend many hours and give much money to charities they consider as being worthy, yet scoffs at the Christian that does those very same things in service of the Lord Jesus Christ. The question becomes where do we place our focus and God has prescribed to us His guidance: For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also (Matthew 6:21). To put it more bluntly, the things that we care enough to put our time and efforts into are where we are placing our treasures. It is these things that when we spend our time, energies, and talents at doing that we name them – through our actions – to the Lord as being the important things that matter to us.

When we begin to honestly desire to see our lives through the eyes of the Lord we begin to realize that so much of our lives are out of focus. In my own life, I have wasted time, money, and energy on things that will not simply not matter. At the time, I justified being so busy with the things that I wanted to do that have little eternal value by claiming that I was trying to make a difference now and not allowing the Lord to show me the things that He had for me to do now that would have brought others to Him so that they may know the joy that knowing Christ brings. Thank God that He always allows us to come back to Him once we realize how far from His plan we’ve strayed. 

Unreached expectations and some lessons learned

180231HrfI love gardening and each spring look for seeds to plant and watch grow.  This past spring was no different.  On one of our family shopping trips, my daughter and I were looking at the seed display rack when one package stood out above all others. Being impressed with the pictures and descriptions on the package, I decided to buy a package of cosmos seeds for around a quarter. My daughter and I took an old egg carton, filled each cup with dirt, and planted two seeds into each cup, then placed the egg carton in the window sill.  Just as stated on the package, within ten days, the first sprouts of green appeared in the makeshift seed starting pots.  Within another three weeks, the seedlings were ready to transplant into window boxes.

I would love to tell you that the plants grew and gave an abundance of blossoms as the picture above or even on the seed envelope had shown.  What happened instead is that one set of plants were attacked by bugs, leaving only one plant unscathed.  It never bloomed.  In the other window box, we had four out of six plants survive whatever it was that ate the other ones, but only one plant bloomed – and the two flowers it had were asymmetric – a far cry from the pictures that had led us to buy that particular seed to try.  As my daughter and I dumped out the window boxes this morning, we began to have a discussion about why things don’t always do what we hope they will.  It started simple enough, “Daddy, these flowers didn’t get very pretty like the pictures. What happened?” At one time another, we have all asked that question – “Lord, why didn’t this work?” I am reminded of this passage of scripture: Go to now, ye that say, To day or to morrow we will go into such a city, and continue there a year, and buy and sell, and get gain: Whereas ye know not what shall be on the morrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapour, that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away. For that ye ought to say, If the Lord will, we shall live, and do this, or that. But now ye rejoice in your boastings: all such rejoicing is evil (James 4:13-16).

We’re all guilty of it; we make plans independently from the Lord and when they do not work out the way we want, we immediately begin our attempt to understand why by asking God, “Lord, why didn’t it work?” We even see that the disciples during the time when the Lord Jesus walked the earth also asked this same question: Then came the disciples to Jesus apart, and said, Why could not we cast him out? (Matthew 17:19). We all know the story, the disciples went to cast out a devil out of a young man and could not do it.  They then brought the boy to the Lord, whom then was able to cast out the devil.  Instead of rejoicing about the deliverance of the young lad, the disciples kept the focus of the story on themselves; in effect they asked “Lord, why didn’t it work for us?” The gospel of Matthew doesn’t tell us if any time passed between the working of the Lord and the question posed by the disciples.  Knowing myself, it would have been a consuming question that probably would have driven me to ask it nearly immediately after the miracle was performed.  I imagine that the disciples were shocked when they discovered – at the teaching of the Lord Jesus Christ – that their attitude was the very reason for their failure to deliver the boy.

So, some of you may be wondering what does planting seeds and the inability of the disciples to release the young boy from being possessed? Had both been successful, where would the glory have been placed?  In the case of the window boxes, I probably would never have thought to give the thanks and praise to the Lord.  Chances are, the disciples would probably have had a similar reaction and would have focused more on their abilities and not the Lord who had given them the abilities.  It would have been nothing to think “wow, those flowers sure are pretty; glad I planted them” or “wow, we just released this precious boy from the devil that possessed him” and not giving the glory, the thanks, and the praise to the Lord. This is the message that the apostle Paul was trying to convey to the early Christians at Thessaloniki when he wrote, Rejoice evermore. Pray without ceasing. In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you (I Thessalonians 5:16-18).

As Christians and children of God, we must remember that our failures do affect God.  Just as I become concerned when my daughter is not able to carry out what she sets out to do, I am sure God has a similar reaction.  I know as a parent there have been several times I have thought to myself, “Sweetie, that’s not going to work…” then have to comfort her as what I knew what was going to happen did.  Since the Bible often compares the roles of parents and the Lord Jesus Christ, I bet there have been times in my life where the Lord has thought, “I wish he would wait, listen and wouldn’t do that…” or “it’s not going to work…” just to have to watch my best made and intended plans fail. With our finite and feeble minds it is hard for us to understand that God has the benefit of being all-knowing, and sees the beginning from the end.  If we just turn to him more in the things that we do and seek His guidance, we would probably experience less failures and more joy. Instead of turning to God when it doesn’t work, what if we make seeking the Lord’s will our first step in even the smallest plan we have?

A response to an errant view on stewardship

CountryChurch_Large1There are a number of websites that I have subscribed to that send out “morning updates.” While most them are politically based, about a quarter of them are faith-based.  There are some faith-based subscriptions that focus on issues such as abortion, developing church leadership, and even the struggles of Christians facing persecution around the world.  One subscription I receive is for encouraging pastors and leaders of other ministries both inside and outside the local congregation. This morning, that particular subscription focusing on pastors and ministerial leadership had an article that focused on what the writer called the “unwise stewardship of the small congregation.” I have decided to keep the author’s name and the affiliated website to myself for various reasons including that normally I find most of the stuff posted on this particular site useful, encouraging, and enlightening.

Being a member of several small churches over the last thirty years, I have witnessed what I considered to be poor stewardship of church resources. Now to be fair, I will share with you that I see anything that does not increase the visibility of the church in the community, that does not further the reach of the church, or does not give support for the ministries of the church as being a waste of church resources.  I once went to a church that hired a professional decorator to come in every two weeks to come in and decorate the sanctuary so that it would be aesthetically appealing and fresh. Yes, while I do believe that having a nice looking church building is important, spending close to $300 a month to keep the place “fresh” is not wise stewardship.  Many churches have women and men who love to do the exact same thing and if asked, would probably be willing to do the same thing for just the cost of the materials or even for free.  I am sure that many of you could also share stories of things that churches have spent money on that have not always shown the best judgment when it came to stewardship of the church’s resources.

So, with all that said, I fully expected the article to discuss similar issues with some suggestions on how the church leadership could guide the church body into making more sound decisions.  I was surprised as I read past the first paragraph to discover that the author was not focused on poor spending habits of the church but on the wastefulness of small church congregations.  The author, an associate pastor of a large church in the Boston, Massachusetts area was lamenting that smaller congregations, by their very nature, are a waste of God’s resources.  His entire article was that by remaining open and unmerged with larger churches so that their financial resources can better serve the Lord, these churches were wasting those resources. Smaller congregations were identified as any local church having fewer than 300 regularly attending Sunday morning services.  The ideal church, according to the article, were those that regularly had a “participating” membership of 300 or more. Again, the author identified those as “participating” as simply showing up for Sunday morning worship. As a part of the benefits of smaller congregations merging to form larger congregations, the author counts the benefits of such actions as the ability to better support paid positions within the church, the ability to have better worship facilities, and the ability to adequately fund various activities within the local church. The very basis for the article was fundamentally flawed on several levels.

The first thing that came to my mind was the apostle Paul’s description of the local New Testament church: For by one Spirit are we all baptized into one body, whether we be Jews or Gentiles, whether we be bond or free; and have been all made to drink into one Spirit. For the body is not one member, but many. If the foot shall say, Because I am not the hand, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body? And if the ear shall say, Because I am not the eye, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body? If the whole body were an eye, where were the hearing? If the whole were hearing, where were the smelling? But now hath God set the members every one of them in the body, as it hath pleased him (I Corinthians 12:13-18). I, as well as other preachers and teachers, have used this passage to discuss the importance of each believer in the local body of Christ but there is a larger application that can be made.  Each local New Testament church has a specific role within the larger body of Christ. Within any denomination, each congregation has its own unique and distinguishable character.  Just as each member of a congregation has a specific function within that congregation that only they can fill, so each local congregation has a specific role and function that it fills within the larger body of Christ.  

Where the author of the article focuses solely on the financial aspects of stewardship, there are other areas that must be considered beyond church finances. As someone who has served as both pastor and interim pastor, I do know the pressures of serving in a smaller congregation that could not financially support a full-time pastor.  My heart’s burden is for the smaller congregation and I admit I am somewhat biased.  In all the churches I served in within those two roles never did I ever consider the money offered by the congregation as a part of my reason to serve.  In every case, I was approached and I saw an opportunity to serve the Lord.  I prayed about the decision and allowed the Lord to lead me without any regard to the amount of money offered. When I did accept the position offered, I was ready to do what was necessary, both in the role I was serving in and as provider of the family.  If I had to have a part-time job to support the ministry I was in, I was ready to do it wholeheartedly and  without complaint.  With this particular author, he was lamenting that as a seminary graduate, it took him serving as an associate pastor nearly ten years before he could find a church that could financially support him. While I understand the hardships that can be caused by insufficient income, any man who approaches a church with an attitude of “if I cannot get paid $xx, then I will not serve as your pastor” is actually hindering the work of the Holy Spirit and is not living by the faith he exhorts others to live by.

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