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A life that is sweet smelling to the Lord

P1000764For the last few mornings, I have begun to get back into my routine of the morning walk.  Before the cold weather set in December, I was walking each morning at a pace between 3 and 3½ miles an hour for about an hour each morning.  At first, it was difficult to get started but just like anything else, it did get to the point where my mornings did not feel complete unless I had done my walk.  With the return of warmer weather, I am now determined to not only increase my pace but to increase the number of miles walked each morning.

It’s actually peaceful in Henderson between 5:30 and 6:30 in the morning. I love listening to southern gospel music while I walk; this morning a song by the group Heaven Bound came on, Can the world see Jesus in you. After listening to the song, I took out my headphones and paused the music.  I felt the need to spend a few minutes in prayer while on my walk. This is nothing new, as I usually spend twenty to thirty minutes in prayer while walking.  There are mornings that I have prayed just to be able to make it back home before passing out, or praying for the needs of the various families in our church.  This morning, I needed to pray about some things in my life.  For those of you who are regular readers, you know that there are things in my past that I am not too proud of.  I have been twice divorced; I failed as a father with the children of my first marriage. When I first accepted the Lord Jesus Christ as my savior in 1988, I didn’t spiritually mature and continued to make decisions based upon the flesh.  I did not become serious about my faith in God or what it meant until 2006.  Since then, I have come to appreciate my salvation and its high cost.  I have become more aware of the fighting of my flesh against the Holy Spirit of God.

As I was praying for guidance, I passed a fence where honeysuckles had nearly completely covered the post and the corner. The fragrance that the flowers gave off could be smelled from about half a block away.  It did get me thinking and wondering if my life, in the eyes of God, smelled as beautiful as those honeysuckles did.  The apostle Paul wrote: And walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweetsmelling savour (Ephesians 5:2).  As this verse came to mind, I began to think that when God looks down at my life He sees the blood of Christ that covers my sins.  Just as the Old Testament sin offerings were said to offer up a sweet savour to the Lord, so has the blood of Christ done that for the life of every believer.  I also thought about another passage: Now thanks be unto God, which always causeth us to triumph in Christ, and maketh manifest the savour of his knowledge by us in every place. For we are unto God a sweet savour of Christ, in them that are saved, and in them that perish: To the one we are the savour of death unto death; and to the other the savour of life unto life. And who is sufficient for these things? (II Corinthians 2:14-16). Again the apostle Paul is not only saying that God does smell the sweet savor of Christ’s sacrifice on all who have accepted salvation that only Christ can bring, but just as the breeze this morning carried the fragrance of the honeysuckles, our lives can spread the sweet savor of Christ’s sacrifice just by sharing the gospel with others.

The apostle Paul also taught through his writings that the very things Christ has instructed us to do can become a source of sweet savor to God as long as our hearts are right: For even in Thessalonica ye sent once and again unto my necessity. Not because I desire a gift: but I desire fruit that may abound to your account. But I have all, and abound: I am full, having received of Epaphroditus the things which were sent from you, an odour of a sweet smell, a sacrifice acceptable, wellpleasing to God. But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus (Philippians 16-19). While Paul is commending the Christians at the church at Philippi for providing for his needs while at Thessalonica, he praises them that their sacrifice in supporting him was a sweet-smelling savor.

During the earthly ministry of Jesus, he shared this teaching: Then shall the King say unto them on his right hand, Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world: For I was an hungred, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in: Naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison, and ye came unto me. Then shall the righteous answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, and fed thee? or thirsty, and gave thee drink? When saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? or naked, and clothed thee? Or when saw we thee sick, or in prison, and came unto thee? And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me. (Matthew 25:34-40). When we do these things with the right heart, I do believe in the spirit of the teachings of the apostle Paul, that God also smells a sweet savor simply because we showed others mercy and love which in itself is a manifestation of Christ’s love within us.  We become a representation of the saving grace of Jesus.  May our lives give off a pleasing smell to God as did those honeysuckles do for man.

The Monday before Easter

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It’s the Monday before Easter; Passover begins on Wednesday, so for both the Christian and the Jew, it is a holy week.  Where the Jew celebrates and remembers the great miracles and judgments that occurred to deliver them out of the hands of the Egyptians.  For Christians, Easter is also a celebration where we remember the great miracles surrounding the life of Jesus and the great judgment that He bore on himself to redeem all people.

This past Sunday, celebrated as Palm Sunday by many Christian denominations, marks the triumphant entry of Jesus into Jerusalem.  The crowds that would later shout out “crucify him” were the same crowds that were spreading palm fronds in front of Jesus on that Sunday morning. It is no marvel at all that the crowd that day turned so rapidly against Christ; our living generations would do the same thing today and it is demonstrated on nearly a daily basis.  Many of the same people who attended church yesterday morning are now, today, acting no different from the lost world around them.  I often wonder is this what Jesus meant when he warned, Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savour, wherewith shall it be salted? it is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under foot of men (Matthew 5:13). Although these Christians proclaim the love, blood, and forgiveness of Christ, their very actions inoculate others against that same gospel.  Christians are called to be different.

Standing in the shadow of the cross, I ask myself if I am the type of Christian I should be. I am not perfect and have my daily struggles with sin. There are times I do not understand why God would love someone like me, someone who is broken, has not made the wisest of choices, and for so long took the love and grace of God for granted.  The good thing is that we have a patient God who does love us and is concerned about us.  If we are willing to let Him, He will mold us and shape us in a way that not only will bring out joy in our lives, but refocuses our attentions from the word to Him.  He also strengthens us, and through our studying of His word, He teaches us.  God does not force our obedience but wants us to be willingly obedient to Him.

Using the Bible as a true mirror

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One of the important milestones in our faith is when we begin to see ourselves as the Lord Jesus Christ sees ourselves.  Back when I was living in Louisiana, an old Baptist preacher by the name of Clarence Welch told me and another young man who was working in his garden that if we ever wanted to get a good look at our faith we could only do so through the mirror of the Bible.  At the time, I was 36 years old and was going through a personal crisis.  I had just been medically discharged from the U.S. Army for injuries that I had sustained. Then, without the comfort and security of a steady income and active duty military benefits, the woman I was married to left me and returned to her hometown where she moved in with her old high school sweetheart.  I was mad – mad at myself, mad at her, mad at those around me, mad at God – genuinely mad.

I wanted to share that because yesterday, my best friend called me and told me that on Friday of last week, as he was heading home, he decided to empty his heart’s contents to God.  He had reached a point in his life where he was desiring a closer relationship with God and from what he described to me, tired of the trapped feeling that unresolved anger can have in our lives.  What he had done, as I had done for so long, was to internalize and bury the unresolved anger and tried to build on top of that foundation. Can we get saved with unresolved anger in our hearts?  The answer to that is simply yes.  Can we spiritually grow with that unresolved anger in our hearts?  The answer to that is also yes; however we will reach a certain point where spiritual growth cannot occur unless we resolve the anger.  There is a reason why – anger occurs when we believe we have been wronged or harmed and we feel that the other party has not atoned for the transgression.  At the heart of the issue is forgiveness and our willingness to allow God to heal our wounds.

Forgiveness is important for the believer for many reasons and if we are not careful, we can actually carry anger with us for so long that we become accustomed to its bondage.  We excuse our anger and have a tendency to see it as justifiable; unfortunately, God does not see it that way.  During Jesus’ earthly ministry, he taught all that would listen, For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses (Matthew 6:14-15). When we harbor our anger we place ourselves under the same judgment, but from God, that we are placing on the object of our anger.  We have effectively blocked God from being in a position to help us and to bless us.  We cannot continue our spiritual growth until we have let go of the anger that holds us back. In fact, the gospel written by the apostle Mark records Jesus teaching those that followed him, And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses (Mark 11:25). Notice that when you pray…forgive, if you have ought against any. There’s no conditions, there’s no justification, there’s no reservations recorded in this verse.  Jesus’ teaching is clear – forgive.

As recorded in the gospel of Matthew, there is a parable that Jesus uses to teach this very concept.  The parable is about a man who receives forgiveness for a debt that he owed another.  The parable ends with this passage: Then his lord, after that he had called him, said unto him, O thou wicked servant, I forgave thee all that debt, because thou desiredst me: Shouldest not thou also have had compassion on thy fellowservant, even as I had pity on thee?  And his lord was wroth, and delivered him to the tormentors, till he should pay all that was due unto him. So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses (Matthew 18:32-35). This is a difficult lesson to allow to sink in – the forgiveness of God is complete; the forgiveness we offer others must reflect the forgiveness that He freely offers us.  It is not optional, it is not a nice request, it is something we must do if we are going to enjoy the fullness of our Christian faith.

The Bible is our mirror and our measuring rod; when we begin to see our lives through the mirror of the Bible, we do not get the distortions that we do when we look at our lives through the lens of the world.  When we look through the lens of this world, it becomes easy to justify our anger and our judgment of others. It becomes easy to hold on to that anger. The world even tells us that we are justified to hold on to our anger and judgment of others.  God tells us that our anger at others must be dealt with; the perceived wrong must be forgiven completely.  Once we have forgiven them, we must leave our anger in the past and pray for the person that wronged us.  By doing so, not only do we free ourselves up from the anger and judgment within our hearts, we allow ourselves to be brought into God’s perfect peace and we really begin to spiritually grow and enjoy the richness of the forgiveness of God.