Category Archives: Christian Living

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Powerless churches, weak Christians, and dangerous currents

 Water_safety_sign_Dangerous_currentOver the past year, for financial reasons and out of frustration over the increasing indecency and immorality of television programing, we made the decision to end our cable television subscription. Since then, I have found that I have more time to do the things I enjoy doing and I am less distracted when I do the things that I need to do. One of the things I enjoy is reading, and lately, as a means of improving my Bible studies, I have been reading some of the older literature of the faith – much of it written from the 18th through early 20th Century – the writings of Charles Spurgeon, D. L. Moody, Andrew Bonar, R. A. Torrey, and Emery Bancroft.

One of the things that I have noticed about their writings that has had a profound impact on my way of thinking is the condition of the church and the fundamental understandings that many people have about the Christian faith. Over the past years, I have had several conversations where others (and myself) have lamented that our faith simply does not feel as strong as it should, how the church almost seems powerless within our communities, and how families are falling apart. This morning, while reading my morning devotional, a constant theme kept running through it:  And Nadab and Abihu, the sons of Aaron, took either of them his censer, and put fire therein, and put incense thereon, and offered strange fire before the LORD, which he commanded them not (Leviticus 10:1), And Nadab and Abihu died, when they offered strange fire before the LORD (Numbers 26:61), and, Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein (Hebrews 13:9).

As many of my readers know, I was not brought up in a Christian household nor did my family regularly attend church. I did not become active in my faith until 2006 when I decided to become serious about my faith. Before then, I was content to let social contexts define my faith and because of that stand, I did not live the sort of life that God has called us to live: Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy (I Peter 1:16). I know now that many out there have the same struggle I had – God seems distant, your faith is weak, and often it seems that temptation and sin overcome you. You go to church seeking answers but instead, all you get is confusion. One of the things that I have noticed since my reading of the old church leaders I mentioned above is that the church, to be seen as relevant in modern society, has adopted teachings and viewpoints that no longer bear the weight of scripture, but are tainted by the teachings and viewpoints of the lost world as a way to be seen as being compassionate, relevant, and even updated to fit modern times. It is for this very reason that churches are struggling, the family is falling apart, and Christians are weak. Strange fire is being offered from the pulpits across the nation and many are being led to adopt strange and diverse doctrines that the apostle Paul warns about. It is hard to keep the place of relevance that God has called the church to hold when the church has forsaken His never-changing teachings and doctrines.

The church and the modern Christian have mostly ignored the “dangerous current” signs placed all through the scriptures and has continued to adopt ideas that should be foreign. Yesterday, while on the community college campus, I saw a bumper sticker that read, “I’m Christian and support abortion”.  This is exactly the mindset that I am referring to. All through the scriptures, we see that God deems all human life as important, and even declared to the prophet Jeremiah, Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations (Jeremiah 1:5). I honestly believe that God knows each of us before we are born and has a plan for each of us, providing that we make the choice to follow His will for us. Even the apostle Paul wrote, But when it pleased God, who separated me from my mother’s womb, and called me by his grace (Galatians 1:15) which solidifies the concept that God There are 67 other verses in the Bible where God discusses life in the womb, yet man, in our wisdom, has proclaimed that abortion is a “woman’s right” as we collectively thumb our nose at God. If God has declared that life begins in the womb then we know that God would consider abortion – man ending that life in the womb – as immoral. In fact, the Old Testament considers it just that: If men strive, and hurt a woman with child, so that her fruit depart from her, and yet no mischief follow: he shall be surely punished, according as the woman’s husband will lay upon him; and he shall pay as the judges determine. And if any mischief follow, then thou shalt give life for life (Exodus 21:22-23). Whether it is out of fear of losing members of the congregation or crossing the imaginary line between politics and religion, many of our nation’s pastors and religious leaders are afraid to preach against the evils of abortion. There should be no great surprise when we read that one CNN poll reported that nearly 56% of Americans who identify themselves as Christians do not see any conflict between their faith and abortion. Again, God’s teachings have not changed, yet the church is swimming in dangerous currents.

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Hints on finding a good church

churchLittle did I know when I gave my life to the Lord Jesus Christ in 1988 that I would spend the next twenty years moving around the country. From 1989 to 1996, most of my moves were related military service and from 1999 through 2011, the moves have been job related. During that time, I have moved nearly twelve times.  One of the first things I would do after a move was to try to find a good church home. At first, I had a very simple way of choosing churches that didn’t always work, but over time I discovered that there were things that I could look for in the churches I visited to help me find a good church home. While these may not work for everyone, these things have helped me find good church homes where I had opportunities to serve, to spiritually grow, and make some life-long friendships with other believers.

Church attendance is really that important. The apostle Paul wrote, Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching (Hebrews 10:25) as guidance to the importance of church attendance and fellowship. He also strongly suggested the importance of church membership in describing how the local New Testament church is similar to a body: For as the body is one, and hath many members, and all the members of that one body, being many, are one body: so also is Christ. For by one Spirit are we all baptized into one body, whether we be Jews or Gentiles, whether we be bond or free; and have been all made to drink into one Spirit. For the body is not one member, but many. If the foot shall say, Because I am not the hand, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body? And if the ear shall say, Because I am not the eye, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body? If the whole body were an eye, where were the hearing? If the whole were hearing, where were the smelling? But now hath God set the members every one of them in the body, as it hath pleased him. And if they were all one member, where were the body? But now are they many members, yet but one body (I Corinthians 12:12-20). Just as we do not see tribes of fingers or toes living separate lives apart from the body, God never intended Christians to exist in isolation from other Christians.  Church membership provides the believer a place to belong, a function and duties to do, and a body to give the spiritual support and encouragement to face the trials, temptations, and hardships of the world.

Never join a church on the first visit. This sounds almost too simple to be true, but yes, I had to learn this lesson the hard way.  Being a young Christian, I believed that the first church I visited was the one that I was being led to by the Holy Spirit rather than simply coming across their name first. While it is right and in my opinion necessary and proper for a Christian to be a member of a local church, it does not mean that you must join the first church you visit.  Not all churches are the same, even if they are in the same denomination.  What I learned and works for me is to make at least six visits to the church before I make the decision to join.  I attend as many of the prospective church’s services as they have and my schedule allows me to attend – this includes Sunday morning and evening services, Sunday School, Wednesday night service, and any special event that occurs during the time I am visiting.  The reason for this is because you can really get a sense about the spiritual growth and standing of a church on what the church is doing.  

As a Christian, I want to attend a church that is not only doctrinally sound, but is also going to be able to help me grow as a man and as a Christian.  I do not want to be a member of a “show church” where the spirituality and fellowship is fake. Unfortunately, any church can put on a good show for Sunday morning service. During the evening and Wednesday night services, when the core membership attends, is where you are going to discover the nature of the church.  You’ll quickly learn if the hospitality was genuine, if their warmth was real, and if they truly strive to serve the Lord.  

Set out to visit churches with the expressed purpose to learn about their faith. Being a Baptist, when I was a much younger and naïve Christian, I assumed that any church that had “Baptist” in the title would be a good choice. What I found out is that there are as many different Baptist churches as Baskin-Robbins has ice cream flavors. I quickly learned the importance of having a relatively open mind about the non-doctrinal differences of the various churches.  So what if they have their AM worship service before the Sunday School classes?  Who cares that they do not have a regular choir or use a certain hymnal, or even have Sunday School classes the way the last church did?  These are minor things, and while may seem strange to a visitor, actually serve the needs of that particular congregation. What is important are the bigger issues – does the pastor or preacher teach sound doctrine? Does the congregation’s attitudes towards visitors show the love of the Lord Jesus Christ? Are a majority of the members sincere in their devotion to the Lord Jesus Christ and their Christian faith? When choosing a church to join it is more important to join a local church that will encourage spiritual growth more so than one that simply makes you feel good to attend.   

For me, I need hard Bible preaching and teaching. I need to hear about the importance of continuing the fight against the flesh and resisting the temptations of the devil. I’ve attended churches that made me feel good, only to discover that there was little to no spiritual growth in my life and I know that there are many that read this blog that also have had similar experiences.  It is not from the comfort of a church pew and soft feel-good sermons that brings about spiritual maturity.  It is the Holy Spirit, through personal Bible study, prayer, Christian fellowship, and strong preaching of the Word of God that prepares us for spiritual growth.

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How I study the Bible

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What I am going to share is nothing new; I am sure that there are others out there that use a method similar to what I do. For others, they have found a way that works for them when they study the Bible.  I personally think that there is a reason why there are only a handful of scriptures that instruct us how to study the Bible.  There’s Paul’s guidance to Timothy: Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth (II Timothy 2:15), and David’s heart’s desire as recorded in Psalms: Mine eyes prevent the night watches, that I might meditate in thy word (Psalms 119:148). Also, in that same psalm, David wrote, Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee (Psalms 119:11). There are about thirty other verses that deal with the concept of meditating on God’s word, but no Biblically defined right or wrong way for the believer to do study the Bible.

Recently I was asked how I study the Bible by a former student of mine.  Until that moment, I really hadn’t thought of how I study the Bible as being much different from anyone else’s. Before 2006, I never seriously studied the Bible before beyond a casual reading and the use of a monthly devotional. In 2006, when my life was literally a mess, I decided that I needed to become more serious about my faith.  It began with two verses: But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him (Hebrews 11:6) and Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth (II Timothy 2:15). At the time, I was attending graduate school and working towards a Ph.D. in American History.  From that moment, I decided that if I could spend all the time and effort reading, researching, and studying American history as my vocation, I should be able to study the Bible just as intently.

What helps me to get the most out of a Bible Study are some pretty simple things that helped me through graduate school.  I am a creäture of habit, and so taking full advantage of that, I decided to develop new habits that would help me develop my Bible studies. What I decided to do was to set aside a part of my day, a time that will not only allow me to devote that time exclusively to focus on the study but that will be consistent from day-to-day. While this does not sound like much, it is important – and I will have to admit that I am now off my normal routine.  Being a morning person normally, I like to do my Bible studying in the early hours of the morning, when no one else is awake.  This way, I am able to study uninterrupted and without distraction.  For you, it may be that you have to do yours at night or some other time during the day; there is no right or wrong time, just as long as the time you choose is free from interruption and you can consistently spend that time with the Lord. 

Once I found a time that worked for me, I decided to handle my Bible study as I did my academic studies.  Just as I had tools that I used within my study of American history, I knew I would need tools to help with my Bible study.  I played around with online Bible study aids, but for me the temptation to surf the web was too strong and were too much of a distraction.  After a few months of Bible study, the tools I discovered that helped me out the most were some things that seemed common sense: my Bible, a notebook dedicated to my Bible studies, and a pen.  Over time, I added some specialty tools that aided my study efforts: a good Bible dictionary, Matthew Henry’s Commentary, Biblical Mathematics by Ed Vallowe, Strong’s Concordance, Cruden’s Concordance, and a good dictionary.  There are those that would say that it shouldn’t cost anything to study the Bible or that one should not have to spend money on Bible study tools and at one point in my life, I would have agreed with that.  However, with most of us, we would think nothing of dropping a couple of hundred dollars buying a new tool if it helped us with our jobs or a hobby.  If we can do that for things that we cannot take with us into Heaven, then why do we hesitate to spend money on things that not only can help us to walk a closer walk with God, but on things – knowledge about the Lord Jesus Christ – that we can take with us to Heaven?

For the first few months of my new Bible study, I played around with a variety of formats.  What I felt worked best for me was to begin each one with prayer, where I would not only ask the Lord to help me learn more about Him, but about myself as well and the needs of the members of my church family.  Once I had done that, I would then begin by reading one chapter from Proverbs.  For example, since today is the 18th day of the month, I would read the corresponding chapter, chapter 18, from Proverbs.  Each month, I repeat this pattern since there are 31 chapters in proverbs and even the longest month only has 31 days.  I still do this today and although I read the entire book of Proverbs 12 times within a year, I am still learning a lot from this simple exercise.  What I have discovered is that as a Christian, I should desire to have a life that God would find pleasing and Proverbs provides that guidance of how I can do just that. After reading the chapter of Proverbs, I follow a plan of reading that will allow me to work through the Bible in two years. I know that there are many people who brag on reading the Bible through in one year, but for me, I want to take the time to digest what I have read and to learn as much from it as the Holy Spirit leads me to learn. Remember, it is not about seeing how fast or how many times you can read through the Bible that counts.  It is the reading, the understanding, the meditation, and the application of the Word to our lives that provides the reward for our study efforts.

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