Focusing on the things that matter

happy-easter-easter-cross-daybreakIn our world it seems that everyone is in a hurry. We have inventions,  and gadgets that were designed for the sole purpose of making the things in our life more convenient. Even job listings have the qualifier of “must be able to multi-task” as an ability that employers are looking for when hiring new people. There is even an entire genre of restaurants that specialize in selling meals that are ready within a few minutes and we do not even have to get out of our car to get them. Unfortunately, many people apply this same frantic pace when it comes to the two most important things we have: our relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ and the relationship we share with our family.

It is easy to lose focus on the things that are important to us as we rush through our busy schedules. It’s easy to skip Bible reading because of an extra tap on the snooze button one morning then turn around and realize that it is now three months later and the entire time, there was always a reason why you could not read the Bible that morning until you no longer remember it as a part of your normal routine. It’s easy to decide to read your Bible or devotional while eating or doing some other task; after all, we all know how to multi-task pretty well until a few weeks or months later, we really do not see where the Bible reading is adding anything to our lives. There are times we get so busy that we even forget the simplest of tasks that need to be done on any given day. Our families suffer as our extra-curricular, service groups, and jobs demand more and more of our time. In our quest to live rich and full lives, we are doing so many things that often the old expression “jack of all trades and master of none” becomes our life’s slogan.

A few months ago, as the Spring 2014 semester was drawing to a close, I had received an email the last two weeks of the semester stating that a new reporting procedure had been put into place and that when final grades were entered into the system, we would need to log into a different interface to report those students that had not attended class since mid-term. My “tradition” is that I enter the grades for each course after I have graded all the projects and papers for the course. Because of multi-tasking and the sheer number of projects I wanted to get done before the weekend, I forgot to enter the requested (and required) report on time. Thank the Lord that many others forgot it too because the deadline was extended another five days; however, it taught me an important lesson: I needed to decide what was really important within my life.

With me believing up to that point that so many things were important, I was not only not devoting the attention that each required, but very little was actually being accomplished. Some things, such as the video ministry I am involved with, the book project I’m working on, and a few others had fallen so far behind that it is going to take dedication and determination to catch up to where I need to be. In my quest to be productive I had become easily distracted by many other things, each requiring time, but in the big scheme of things, having little value. Jesus taught during his earthly ministry: A good man out of the good treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart bringeth forth that which is evil: for of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaketh (Luke 6:45), For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also (Luke 12:34), and  Either make the tree good, and his fruit good; or else make the tree corrupt, and his fruit corrupt: for the tree is known by his fruit (Matthew 12:33). Everything we do without regard to whom or what we do it for can only be classified into one of these categories – it’s either good fruit or bad. Whatever we do that we invest the most work and effort in is what we consider our treasure.

When I began to look at the things in my life in those terms, it became pretty clear that many of the things I was doing were not going to bear eternal fruit in Heaven. It is not necessarily that those things were evil or that there was anything particularly wrong with them, it was just that they did nothing to further the gospel message of the Lord that I serve nor did they relate directly to supporting my commitments made to my employer, my family, or even my church. They were commitments made for nothing better than to elevate my own position and that appealed to my flesh. No one is immune from the desire to increase our own self-image and self-worth. I am reminded of the teachings of the Lord: And he said unto them, Take heed, and beware of covetousness: for a man’s life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesseth. And he spake a parable unto them, saying, The ground of a certain rich man brought forth plentifully: And he thought within himself, saying, What shall I do, because I have no room where to bestow my fruits? And he said, This will I do: I will pull down my barns, and build greater; and there will I bestow all my fruits and my goods. And I will say to my soul, Soul, thou hast much goods laid up for many years; take thine ease, eat, drink, and be merry. But God said unto him, Thou fool, this night thy soul shall be required of thee: then whose shall those things be, which thou hast provided? So is he that layeth up treasure for himself, and is not rich toward God (Luke 12:15-21).

What a powerful thought when it is applied to our daily lives – everything we do is either laying up treasure in Heaven or treasure on Earth. Although I do enjoy being a part of various civic groups, they have no eternal value; things that have eternal value are what matters to God. These are things that either point others to Him or that testify to our faithfulness to Him. How many projects or positions I hold through the American Legion or the VFW does not have eternal value; the time studying God’s word, telling others about the goodness of God, living a lifestyle that testifies that Jesus is my Lord and Savior, being faithful in my worship to Him, and raising my children to love the Lord – these are things that have eternal value. How much money I give to charity does not have eternal value; how I gave to the Lord in support of the local ministry and my attitude towards that giving has eternal value. Our society openly rewards and praises people who spend many hours and give much money to charities they consider as being worthy, yet scoffs at the Christian that does those very same things in service of the Lord Jesus Christ. The question becomes where do we place our focus and God has prescribed to us His guidance: For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also (Matthew 6:21). To put it more bluntly, the things that we care enough to put our time and efforts into are where we are placing our treasures. It is these things that when we spend our time, energies, and talents at doing that we name them – through our actions – to the Lord as being the important things that matter to us.

When we begin to honestly desire to see our lives through the eyes of the Lord we begin to realize that so much of our lives are out of focus. In my own life, I have wasted time, money, and energy on things that will not simply not matter. At the time, I justified being so busy with the things that I wanted to do that have little eternal value by claiming that I was trying to make a difference now and not allowing the Lord to show me the things that He had for me to do now that would have brought others to Him so that they may know the joy that knowing Christ brings. Thank God that He always allows us to come back to Him once we realize how far from His plan we’ve strayed. 

Powerless churches, weak Christians, and dangerous currents

 Water_safety_sign_Dangerous_currentOver the past year, for financial reasons and out of frustration over the increasing indecency and immorality of television programing, we made the decision to end our cable television subscription. Since then, I have found that I have more time to do the things I enjoy doing and I am less distracted when I do the things that I need to do. One of the things I enjoy is reading, and lately, as a means of improving my Bible studies, I have been reading some of the older literature of the faith – much of it written from the 18th through early 20th Century – the writings of Charles Spurgeon, D. L. Moody, Andrew Bonar, R. A. Torrey, and Emery Bancroft.

One of the things that I have noticed about their writings that has had a profound impact on my way of thinking is the condition of the church and the fundamental understandings that many people have about the Christian faith. Over the past years, I have had several conversations where others (and myself) have lamented that our faith simply does not feel as strong as it should, how the church almost seems powerless within our communities, and how families are falling apart. This morning, while reading my morning devotional, a constant theme kept running through it:  And Nadab and Abihu, the sons of Aaron, took either of them his censer, and put fire therein, and put incense thereon, and offered strange fire before the LORD, which he commanded them not (Leviticus 10:1), And Nadab and Abihu died, when they offered strange fire before the LORD (Numbers 26:61), and, Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein (Hebrews 13:9).

As many of my readers know, I was not brought up in a Christian household nor did my family regularly attend church. I did not become active in my faith until 2006 when I decided to become serious about my faith. Before then, I was content to let social contexts define my faith and because of that stand, I did not live the sort of life that God has called us to live: Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy (I Peter 1:16). I know now that many out there have the same struggle I had – God seems distant, your faith is weak, and often it seems that temptation and sin overcome you. You go to church seeking answers but instead, all you get is confusion. One of the things that I have noticed since my reading of the old church leaders I mentioned above is that the church, to be seen as relevant in modern society, has adopted teachings and viewpoints that no longer bear the weight of scripture, but are tainted by the teachings and viewpoints of the lost world as a way to be seen as being compassionate, relevant, and even updated to fit modern times. It is for this very reason that churches are struggling, the family is falling apart, and Christians are weak. Strange fire is being offered from the pulpits across the nation and many are being led to adopt strange and diverse doctrines that the apostle Paul warns about. It is hard to keep the place of relevance that God has called the church to hold when the church has forsaken His never-changing teachings and doctrines.

The church and the modern Christian have mostly ignored the “dangerous current” signs placed all through the scriptures and has continued to adopt ideas that should be foreign. Yesterday, while on the community college campus, I saw a bumper sticker that read, “I’m Christian and support abortion”.  This is exactly the mindset that I am referring to. All through the scriptures, we see that God deems all human life as important, and even declared to the prophet Jeremiah, Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations (Jeremiah 1:5). I honestly believe that God knows each of us before we are born and has a plan for each of us, providing that we make the choice to follow His will for us. Even the apostle Paul wrote, But when it pleased God, who separated me from my mother’s womb, and called me by his grace (Galatians 1:15) which solidifies the concept that God There are 67 other verses in the Bible where God discusses life in the womb, yet man, in our wisdom, has proclaimed that abortion is a “woman’s right” as we collectively thumb our nose at God. If God has declared that life begins in the womb then we know that God would consider abortion – man ending that life in the womb – as immoral. In fact, the Old Testament considers it just that: If men strive, and hurt a woman with child, so that her fruit depart from her, and yet no mischief follow: he shall be surely punished, according as the woman’s husband will lay upon him; and he shall pay as the judges determine. And if any mischief follow, then thou shalt give life for life (Exodus 21:22-23). Whether it is out of fear of losing members of the congregation or crossing the imaginary line between politics and religion, many of our nation’s pastors and religious leaders are afraid to preach against the evils of abortion. There should be no great surprise when we read that one CNN poll reported that nearly 56% of Americans who identify themselves as Christians do not see any conflict between their faith and abortion. Again, God’s teachings have not changed, yet the church is swimming in dangerous currents.

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Hints on finding a good church

churchLittle did I know when I gave my life to the Lord Jesus Christ in 1988 that I would spend the next twenty years moving around the country. From 1989 to 1996, most of my moves were related military service and from 1999 through 2011, the moves have been job related. During that time, I have moved nearly twelve times.  One of the first things I would do after a move was to try to find a good church home. At first, I had a very simple way of choosing churches that didn’t always work, but over time I discovered that there were things that I could look for in the churches I visited to help me find a good church home. While these may not work for everyone, these things have helped me find good church homes where I had opportunities to serve, to spiritually grow, and make some life-long friendships with other believers.

Church attendance is really that important. The apostle Paul wrote, Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching (Hebrews 10:25) as guidance to the importance of church attendance and fellowship. He also strongly suggested the importance of church membership in describing how the local New Testament church is similar to a body: For as the body is one, and hath many members, and all the members of that one body, being many, are one body: so also is Christ. For by one Spirit are we all baptized into one body, whether we be Jews or Gentiles, whether we be bond or free; and have been all made to drink into one Spirit. For the body is not one member, but many. If the foot shall say, Because I am not the hand, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body? And if the ear shall say, Because I am not the eye, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body? If the whole body were an eye, where were the hearing? If the whole were hearing, where were the smelling? But now hath God set the members every one of them in the body, as it hath pleased him. And if they were all one member, where were the body? But now are they many members, yet but one body (I Corinthians 12:12-20). Just as we do not see tribes of fingers or toes living separate lives apart from the body, God never intended Christians to exist in isolation from other Christians.  Church membership provides the believer a place to belong, a function and duties to do, and a body to give the spiritual support and encouragement to face the trials, temptations, and hardships of the world.

Never join a church on the first visit. This sounds almost too simple to be true, but yes, I had to learn this lesson the hard way.  Being a young Christian, I believed that the first church I visited was the one that I was being led to by the Holy Spirit rather than simply coming across their name first. While it is right and in my opinion necessary and proper for a Christian to be a member of a local church, it does not mean that you must join the first church you visit.  Not all churches are the same, even if they are in the same denomination.  What I learned and works for me is to make at least six visits to the church before I make the decision to join.  I attend as many of the prospective church’s services as they have and my schedule allows me to attend – this includes Sunday morning and evening services, Sunday School, Wednesday night service, and any special event that occurs during the time I am visiting.  The reason for this is because you can really get a sense about the spiritual growth and standing of a church on what the church is doing.  

As a Christian, I want to attend a church that is not only doctrinally sound, but is also going to be able to help me grow as a man and as a Christian.  I do not want to be a member of a “show church” where the spirituality and fellowship is fake. Unfortunately, any church can put on a good show for Sunday morning service. During the evening and Wednesday night services, when the core membership attends, is where you are going to discover the nature of the church.  You’ll quickly learn if the hospitality was genuine, if their warmth was real, and if they truly strive to serve the Lord.  

Set out to visit churches with the expressed purpose to learn about their faith. Being a Baptist, when I was a much younger and naïve Christian, I assumed that any church that had “Baptist” in the title would be a good choice. What I found out is that there are as many different Baptist churches as Baskin-Robbins has ice cream flavors. I quickly learned the importance of having a relatively open mind about the non-doctrinal differences of the various churches.  So what if they have their AM worship service before the Sunday School classes?  Who cares that they do not have a regular choir or use a certain hymnal, or even have Sunday School classes the way the last church did?  These are minor things, and while may seem strange to a visitor, actually serve the needs of that particular congregation. What is important are the bigger issues – does the pastor or preacher teach sound doctrine? Does the congregation’s attitudes towards visitors show the love of the Lord Jesus Christ? Are a majority of the members sincere in their devotion to the Lord Jesus Christ and their Christian faith? When choosing a church to join it is more important to join a local church that will encourage spiritual growth more so than one that simply makes you feel good to attend.   

For me, I need hard Bible preaching and teaching. I need to hear about the importance of continuing the fight against the flesh and resisting the temptations of the devil. I’ve attended churches that made me feel good, only to discover that there was little to no spiritual growth in my life and I know that there are many that read this blog that also have had similar experiences.  It is not from the comfort of a church pew and soft feel-good sermons that brings about spiritual maturity.  It is the Holy Spirit, through personal Bible study, prayer, Christian fellowship, and strong preaching of the Word of God that prepares us for spiritual growth.

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